Monday, January 16, 2006

A Silent FriendShip!!!!

     The first day in college, nysa(name changed) met so many new faces… some scared her coz they were monsters in the form of seniors, some frndly those of her batchmates and some of those who were to bcome her long life frnds!!

     The first few months she sat with different ppl and had chgned n no. of seats to sit with the right person who was compatible with her views, her bunking classes, her mischiefs and above all who fully agreed with any damn trait of hers. Finally she found a frnd in nidhs (name changed)… She was there to take up every blame of mischief played by nysa!! It was as if nysa wouldn’t have dreamt of nythng else in life if nidhs was there with her. She didn’t require a bf to entertain or sooth her. They used to spend huge amounts of time together at any time of day sharing all sorts of knowledge ranging frm engg, movies, songs, higher studies etc.

     Nysa witnessed a lot of groupism in college as was usual. But being with nidhs never made her feel left alone or aloof. They were enuf to tackle a group of 10 even. They spend the whole of 1st yr through the mid of second together deepening their frndship bond every min of the day!! “A wonderful relation to cherish” -- Nysa used to feel. But all of a sudden one day came whn the very trust of both nysa and nidhs came to a shattering end whn the first seed of misunderstanding started sprouting. It started growing everyday and one fine day the frndship uptil fate was broken and they parted their ways with heavy hearts!!!

     Now nysa found herself totally left aloof frm the rest of the college crowd with nidhs not there to support her nymore!! Then to her gr8 relief, nysa found shelter in a group of 5, the sixth one being nysa herself. But she was there with them superficially everytime thnking of the moments she had spent with Nidhs. She used to thnk many a times to go and get her back. But tht time came only after 3 yrs. Whn they both had left college and were pretty much settled in jobs. Now they r once again back with their frndship.

     Once being a group of 6 she also started inflicting herself with grpism traits. Now there was this particular group with whom she limited her interaction uptil a hollow “Hi”. But one person amongst this group, with a beautiful and mesmerizing smile always attracted her!! Being a silent chap and being herself an introvert by nature she could never ever approach him for a talk. Nor did he have the guts to cross the limit of those smiles exchanged btwn them!! Was it the groupism causing an hindrance or something else … they never knw the reason for sure, even whn they have bcome close frnds now!!!

     Days passed in college with both of them exchanging just smiles. Nysa got involved in her grp and D got ngaged in his. In btwn they started talking but all related to studies and finally it was the 7th sem of the college. By this time both of them talked but to b specific just 5-6 in the ntire 31/2 yrs of engg. Now their final yr training forced thm to bid adeau to each other, this time too with a smile. Nysa’s training forced her to be away from her parents itself and D also!! By now both of them had taken it for granted tht we both can never b frnds and can b knwn only as batchmates!!

     During final yr exams also they never met and finally Nysa went away frm D as per the requirement of her job, thus leaving it to fate tht they were not destined to meet or be frnds. Then one fine day to Nysa’s utter surprise, D called up to inform her, tht he had got a job in the very place as she was! Now her happiness knew no bounds coz she had got a call frm a person whom she hardly ever talked and feared giving a smile even!! Then with the passing time they started chatting on YM and phone and became very fast frnds. They started seeing each other on weekends (if possible). And donno how such a sweet frndship took shape btwn both of them, in just 4 months time, which they could never even dare to initiate in 4 yrs time!!

     Now both of them are miles apart from each other but even now when either of them feels down and thinks of talking to someone – it has to be D/Nysa after their parents!!! These are the moments when Nysa believes in fate. If it wouldn’t have been for fate they would have never ever have had been frnds, coz college never allowed them to even talk but once out, their urge to become friends got them together and 2day they share a relation they both will cherish till fate!!!

Even I wonder sometimes this is how true frndship sprouts, matures and grows fully.....

26 Comments:

Blogger Dharmesh Mehta said...

I feel you are likely to be correct that D had some kinda resistance in talking to Nysa while in college..May be the interaction efforts didn't cross the bars ...

May be D, wanted to be sure before meeting someone new and hoping that person knows who he was.

I had heard that, "The worst way to miss someone is to be seated by his/her side and know you’ll never have him/her". But in this case, where D and Nysa are miles away, they are close friends..

Nevertheless, Nysa, should have played an important role in maturing this friendship..

So, that's a perfect example of growing friendship, indeed from dead silence..

I hope that they continue to be friends forever...Cheers for their friendship ...started with name of "Silent Friendship" ....

WRegs,
Dharmesh.

Monday, 16 January, 2006  
Blogger Voice said...

Nysa and D.Nysa and Nidhi.
and one ultimate thing FATE.

May be fate has more stored for nysa and D. Such friendship should be treasured and taken care of. Many frndhsip dont grow due to lack of communication. now it is OK, i wish more for them.

Monday, 16 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@dhamu.. definitely unlogon ne frndship ke liye toh bahot kuch kar liya jo woh log engg. ek 4 saal main nahi karr paaye!! :)))

and haan it was silent coz i thnk Nysa and D were looking for the proper time to start the frndship!! And i thnk it was a good decision if it would have started in college Nysa would have lost D for grpism may b!! :)))

nyways nice comments thnx a lot!! :)))

@voice.. May be fate has more stored for nysa and D.

yup there is more for this frndship to grow but this frndship is different frm ny other frndship relations coz this frndship's destination is to reach the heights of frndship!!! :)))

Such friendship should be treasured and taken care of.

its very much treasured even now but within Nysa's and D's hearts away frm public view!! :))

Monday, 16 January, 2006  
Blogger Samyak said...

U make ur OWN fortune and call it as FATE !!
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In college, u normally have interactions within the grp more and restricted to hi.. hellos with others ! Once outta college, the grp is gone and if u meet any other person from the other grp, u will surely go ahead and talk to him-her than go to a stranger. So, again the bond tightens…. And friendship grows.. no wonder. Fate has nothing to with it !!
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Why the name D not changed while other 2 have changed?? [:O]

Monday, 16 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@samyak.. U make ur OWN fortune and call it as FATE !!

thts pretty much true, but wht i said is it was never in the hands of Nysa or D to develop this frndship even whn they were out!! And the day whn D called up Nysa, D wasn't sure whether it would be Nysa's no. so again he got it through luck whch is not mentioned here in this post!!!

nyways even i m a staunch believer tht its always tht we are the owner of our fate and we have the ability to shape it as per our priorities :))))

Monday, 16 January, 2006  
Blogger Aurora said...

hmmmmm i dont know wht shd i say abt this
i think nysa need smtime for frdship thts y she take so much time

Monday, 16 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@megs.. i think nysa need smtime for frdship thts y she take so much time

yup she took ample amt of time but it was worth it i guess!!! :)))

@veerji.. wow yaar....nice story!!!

story nahi hai hakeekat hai kisi ki zindagi ki :D:PPPPP

dixit ko pahdho....woh khush ho jayega

arey chuhe ko kyon :Ooooooooooo

does it mean that if ur a member of 1 group u dont talk to ppl of other groups.

in our college it used to be like there would b 2 dominant grps and members of either grp don't interact much :((( kuch cheap grpism bhi keh sakte ho :PPPP ya uptil school time the grpism i had seen was totally different it was as if naam ke liye grps the but unity was gr8 but in my college inspite of all these grpism our computer engg. batch was famous for its unity in bunking and such other activities :D:PPP

Monday, 16 January, 2006  
Blogger Ravi Dixit said...

wow yaar....nice story!!!
dixit ko pahdho....woh khush ho jayega


padh liya angad paaji :P:P aur khush bhi ho gaya:):)

ab athenaji .. yeh batao ki nysa tum ho ya phir nidhs??

Tuesday, 17 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@dixit.. ab athenaji .. yeh batao ki nysa tum ho ya phir nidhs??

aur agar main kahoon ki dono main se ek bhi main nahi toh :PPPPPPP waise tumhe aisa kyon laga ki ye meri life ki history chaap de hai maina :DPPPP

Tuesday, 17 January, 2006  
Blogger Aurora said...

vins dixit ko kuch bhi lagta rehta hain :P

Tuesday, 17 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@megs.. vins dixit ko kuch bhi lagta rehta hain :P

haan pata nahi kyon lekin aajkal dixitji ko kaafi kuch lagne laga hai ;):PPP

Tuesday, 17 January, 2006  
Blogger Saras said...

And D and Nysa lived happily ever after :p

btw ye Dixit episode kuch samajh nahi aa raha ;)

Tuesday, 17 January, 2006  
Blogger Aurora said...

haan pata nahi kyon lekin aajkal dixitji ko kaafi kuch lagne laga hai

exactly uske demaag mein jada asar pad gaya bechara chua !!!!......

Tuesday, 17 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@saras.. And D and Nysa lived happily ever after :p

ye kahani ka The End kab hua :Oooooooooooooooo

btw ye Dixit episode kuch samajh nahi aa raha ;)

abhi pehle waali kahani toh khatam hui nahi pata nahi kaunse naye serial ka launch maarne ki koshish main ho :D:PPPP

@megs.. exactly uske demaag mein jada asar pad gaya bechara chua !!!!......

haan pata nahi ye chuhe ko kis billi ne ghayal kiya hai jo aajkal itna paglaya hua ghoom raha hai ;):DDDD

Tuesday, 17 January, 2006  
Blogger Aurora said...

@vins
haan pata nahi ye chuhe ko kis billi ne ghayal kiya hai jo aajkal itna paglaya hua ghoom raha

dixit episode
paglaya hua :D
bechare ko kisne jhatka de diya vins :P

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Samyak said...

Ye Typing karane waale haath HUMko de de thaakuurrrain... Ye haath... humko de de...

Khaachhaakk... tumhaare haath Gabbar ne kaat diye DDDPPPP

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@megs.. bechare ko kisne jhatka de diya vins :P

arey nahi megs ye toh sirf trailor hai abhi toh movie shuru kahan hui hai ;):DDDPP

@seige.. tumhaare haath Gabbar ne kaat diye DDDPPPP

oye duplicate gabbar pehle dhyaan se dekho ye haath photu main hain hakeekat main nahi isliye main hi inhe crop karkar tum mail karti hoon 8)):PPPPP

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Samyak said...

haath crops karr ke...
mere pass to saare pics hai !!

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@seige.. mere pass to saare pics hai !!

ye toh main daawe ke saath keh sakti hoon ki ye pic nahi hai tumhaare pass :PPPPPP

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Samyak said...

ab tak nahi tha.. ab to hai na !!
waise.. mere pass is se bhi achhe achhe pics hai !! and videos bhi !! [:P][:D] Daawe ke saath !! [;)]

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@seige.. mere pass is se bhi achhe achhe pics hai !! and videos bhi !! [:P][:D] Daawe ke saath

thnx itne info ke liye!!! aur videos ka kya karoge achar daalne waale ho :PPPP waise aur kitni ladkiyon ke profiles hain tumhaare pass ;):DPPP

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Samyak said...

Tumhaare siva kisi ke bhi nahi... tumhaare inhi haathon ki kasam !!
Sacchhiii !!

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@seige.. . tumhaare inhi haathon ki kasam !!

hailaa mere haathon ki jhooti kasam khakar unhe kyon marvaa rahe ho :(((((( abhi toh inhe aur kitna type karrna hai inhe baksh do duplicate gabbar :D:PPP

Wednesday, 18 January, 2006  
Blogger Mohan Kodali said...

nice one :)

Thursday, 19 January, 2006  
Blogger Aurora said...

woh episode ka trailor toh pata nahi but yaha sam ki sholey zarror start ho gayi [:P][:D]

Thursday, 19 January, 2006  
Blogger Athena said...

@chandu.. thnx :)

@megs.. trailor toh pata nahi but yaha sam ki sholey zarror start ho gayi

haan film khatam bhi ho chuka hai and us duplicate gabbar ne bachchi ke haath le liye hain :DDDD nyways villain ko finally mere haath nahi mile hain isliye no worries sirf photu waale haath mile hain 8)):DPPP

Thursday, 19 January, 2006  

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