Unconditional Love.......

     Love comes in different forms at different times of life.. But unconditional luv comes rarely and we never realize uptil the time it has gone far away from us. It’s the same for majority of the living creatures in this universe. May be too much to include the entire universe.. but then again the truth is love knows no bounds.

     Not only myself, hopefully every other person might have witnessed this unconditional luv at some point in life. Beginning with the birth of the child until his/her death, he/she witnesses many forms of luv and sometimes gets lucky to have such a kind of unconditional luv, may be through friends, relatives or the spl someone.

     Wondering what my definition of unconditional luv includes – ohh nothng gr8.. “Give anything under the sun to that special friend, special ppl or special someone in your life without any expectations of any kind in return...” To put it down in words or preach the same is too easy but to practice in reality is too difficult. Inspite of the fact that I got ample amount of unconditional luv at different points in my life, frankly speaking never ever could practice the same to the fullest... except for may be some times which outnumbers the time ppl have done the same to me :))

     Once someone had imbibed into my mind – “If someone offers u a seat beside u there may be some selfish motive behind that”. Still to this day I sometimes keep getting confused between the truth and blunt truth I have faced in my short life uptil now. Sometimes I get disappointed when I don’t get the expected care and attention from the ppl whom I respect and crave for a lot.. and least expectedly I always just turn my bak to the ppl who unconditionally, everytime bestow so much of luv and affection on me.. is it some selfish motive acting behind their grateful act or is it again unconditional luv.. but after having witnessed so many ups and downs I can finally differentiate between unconditional luv and selfishness..

     I used to be a very selfish creature during my school days uptil 2nd yr engg. My classmates and collegemates used to get irritated by my very nature.. “So many mood swings and alongwith that selfishness.. god knows how this girlie survives” -- used to be their consistent thought with every passing moment in life.But one thing for sure is they still helped me whenever I required.. can’t that be considered a gr8 example of unconditional love :)) They were, are and will be always my sweet and close frnds for all they have done in tolerating a stone-hearted person like me :DDDD

     When it comes to me, to give the same I hesitate.. thnking why should I give a person who will never ever return me bak the same.. But I have been so wrong. And for this change in thought of mine there are some special ppl. They have influenced my ideas greatly. One of thm has to be my Big B and parents whose unconditional luv has and will always be above all of them and is incomparable.

     The others are the special ppl I came across my lifetime. My intimate friend Tyagi is a live example of the same.. He has always given me and seen to it that I get all happiness of life.. without even expecting a simple “hi” or “smile” from me in return. Initially I used to thnk was it his selfishness to get my frndship. But gradually understood thats what I can describe my sweet friend in one line as “Giver of unconditional luv”. He has been the same to any other person, no doubt have been somewhat partial to me. But yup there are others also who taught me the same thing in b’bay through b’lore and pretty much on orkut and I can’t mention all of their names, the very reason being that every other person whom I met through orkut and became close to can be categorized in the above category :)))) Thnx to all my online and offline buddies for having given my life the beauty of this unconditional luv… Once again being selfish in quoting – “Hope to get this unconditional luv all through my life”...

     Can’t help mentioning abt the origin of this thought and consequent post on the topic of “Unconditional Love”.. Got inspired by a telugu movie “Arya” based on the same theme… and see how I penned down such a long post………… Thts the charm of “Unconditional Love”....