Loved and Lost................

Aasama ke tare aksar puchte hai humse ....
"Kya tumhe aj bhi intezaar hai uske laut aane ka"
Aur yeh dil muskurake kehta hai
"Mujhe to ab tak yakin na hua uske chale jane ka"

      Too sentimental a shayari.. but it has expressed so much about a person who has loved and lost…. Would definitely like to thank the person who send me this, she is my most intimate friend and has always been there for me through all thick and thin of my life….Wondering why am I talking about being in love and then losing it, hmm interesting thing to talk about…….

      Have always witnessed people getting united in love except for some stupid kundali or caste thing creeping in between, so never ever felt a need to give a thought to the other side of the coin. Almost all of my friends did a love marriage at least people close to me. So never ever thought what would be the scenario wherein people never get united………

      My previous post was about love marriages not happening because of some weird reasons like caste and kundali. Herein the reason for love couples not uniting has its origin there, but then it’s the couples’s wish of separating out for their parent’s wish. Doesn’t that sound weird, but if you happen to experience something like this in your life you will definitely appreciate my thought out here….

      Have you ever wondered why sometimes parents don’t agree to the wish of their children of doing a love marriage, the reason may be they might have had a very successful arranged marriage or may be they can’t digest the fact that their son/daughter are mature enough to select a partner for themselves….. Lekin you know what the cases I have seen have been too good to set up as a model for anyone. The couples involved simply came upon the mutual decision of separating out for their parents’ sake…..

      Maybe the aftermath of this may be favorable and a source of happiness for the parents, but painful for the couples involved… But then again you have to always respect your parent’s coz they have always been with you throughout your life, better through every phase of your life……..

      So in case if you fall for someone I guess you should definitely approach your parents first before taking a decision of your own, coz I guess they deserve the first right to know about your life……. Eloping and getting married is just another way of showing off cowardice. You elope to get married coz you can’t face the situation.. But if you stand by the situation I guess you can be the best inspirational models society can have… Though you may not get united with the love of your life but you will always have the satisfaction of having made your parents happy with a sacrifice from your side….. Donno how many will support this statement of mine but I fully agree with the same…. I guess the best solution then would be think twice before you fall in love :DD


      Also would like to share these beautiful lyrics (bin tere kya hai jeena – woh lamhe) for all those have loved and lost. These lyrics truly are for such couples to survive the rest of their life in spite of the fact that they may be someone’s else’s partner in future……..

Bin tere kya hai jeena
Bin tere tya hai jeena
Meri dil ki rani tum
Meri kushiyon ka mausam
Mere Khwaabon ke tabeer
Mere sapno ki tasveeer
bin tere kaisi yaaar
woh jeet ho ya haar

tere sang ke hai sab kuch..
tu naa ho to bekaar...

bin tere kya hai jeena..
Bin tere kya hai jeena..

Suni khali raatein
Rookhi feeki baatein
Har ahat per chowkun
tujhko harsuu dekhon
tujhko har dum sochon
tujhko har pal chaahon
Tere bin to jeevan mera hai intezaaar.

bin tere kya hai jeena
bin tere kya hai jeena

Tere saath jeeeye jo pal
kuch unse nahi badh kar
Tere khatir saaans main loo
Tere khaatir jeeta hoon
Marne ki tammna bhi mein
Tere saaath main rakhta hoon

Tu hai jeene ke wajhe hai
Tu kar mera aitbaar.
Bin tere kya hai jeena
Bin tere kya hai jeenaa
Bin tere kya hai jeeenaaa
Bin tere kya hai jeenaa

      Isn’t it true…………………. By now you might have figured out the basic essence of the shayari….This shaayari is soley dedicated for those who have taken the mutual decision of separating out for their parent’s wishes and still have the beloved somewhere in their heart……….